"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's So easy!

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Ok, I have never asked a girl out in my life. Until today. I walked up to this HB9 and just said "Do you want to go out sometime". And that was it. I got her #. Heck i'm not even sure that is her real # LOL(i haven't called her yet). But i don't care, i am proud to now have the balls to do it!

That is all you have to do, it is so easy. Stop reading this and go out and get a # for yourself!Now!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well I'm glad you got up the nerve to get her number. That's progress!

If the number isn't real, then at least you were able to get up the nerve. I wouldn't concentrate too much at this point to get the chick, but to get the SKILL. And you are doing that, my friend. Keep it up!
 
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Yeah, I asked girls out before, but it never worked out because I acted like an AFC all needy, and smothering. I tried too hard. I didnt understand what that meant before because I thought girls loved constant attention. Now I know thats wrong.

I havent asked a girl out yet with my "new" persona but Im sure things will go much much better since I act normal now instead of weird.
 
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shi t get it done bro

im looking forward to starting college in a few weeks so many girls to mac on. i think i might use your method! this should go in the djb.

so many girls - so many hot girls - oh god...
 
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Just a suggestion........you might want to talk a tiny bit first before you ask for ehr number.

Ninja out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What the heck is an HB9?
 
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Originally posted by jason999
What the heck is an HB9?
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A seriously hot chick.

But congrats QuIjebo, you're already on your way to self confidence and picking up chicks.
 
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Hahahahhah! Classic!!! Congrats to you Q.

But it's still a good idea to read the DJ Bible and get your game to a higher skill level. The chances of that happening are pretty low compared to gaming them first.
 
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Originally posted by QuIjebo
Ok, I have never asked a girl out in my life. Until today. I walked up to this HB9 and just said "Do you want to go out sometime". And that was it. I got her #. Heck i'm not even sure that is her real # LOL(i haven't called her yet). But i don't care, i am proud to now have the balls to do it!

That is all you have to do, it is so easy. Stop reading this and go out and get a # for yourself!Now!!
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It seriously is easy. Keep it up with this attitude ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yes, talking to women is easy, espicially when you figure out that hot chikcs are just like the rest of us, and have issues like the rest of us, then it really gets easy
 
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How about this. Next time you see a HB9, picture her irregular nippulars. One big like a cherry and one small like a mole. Point to her t*ts and laugh at her because the smaller one has hair growing out of it.
 
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