Its really getting to me

[Epicwinguy]

I am still a virgin anx haven't even dated since freshman year of high school. I just really god damn badly want sex with a young woman like 18-25. I always assumed you had to be extremely charismatic, witty and good looking to get one night stands with pretty girls, but according to some posts on here thats not true.

There is a bar across from where I live. I don't have a car and there is not transit in my area, so this bar is my best bet for finding a girl. That or online dating, which is bull**** imo.

What should be my strategy for getting laid here if I go alone?

 

[cola]

Pay for it. Get a high quality escort, and pay her for protected sex. Youd spend the same on her as you would on one date with someone less hot.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Most women need commitment before they're gonna let you bang them, so in order to ONS they have to be drunk so it's not their fault (public shaming is taken care of), or She's got to be doing it because she just broke up with her boyfriend or upset at her boyfriend or has mental problems. Sex is not Free, you must commit or concede to the woman. You just have to ask yourself, "do I really want to be that guy?" who's just there for her rebound or emotional fix, that next day she'll throw you away? If you're tough, then you can do that and shuck it off when she wants you outta mind outta sight.

 

[wifehunter]

I am still a virgin anx haven't even dated since freshman year of high school. I just really god damn badly want sex with a young woman like 18-25. I always assumed you had to be extremely charismatic, witty and good looking to get one night stands with pretty girls, but according to some posts on here thats not true.

There is a bar across from where I live. I don't have a car and there is not transit in my area, so this bar is my best bet for finding a girl. That or online dating, which is bull**** imo.

What should be my strategy for getting laid here if I go alone?

Despiration... Pitch it!!!

It will happen when it needs to. Work on yourself. If you're just trying to get laid.... You came to the wrong forum.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Despiration... Pitch it!!!

It will happen when it needs to. Work on yourself. If you're just trying to get laid.... You came to the wrong forum.

Well the original context for this forum is to get laid, hence the name "So Suave" along with the ads that relate only to getting women ratger than self improvement....

 

[wifehunter]

Well the original context for this forum is to get laid, hence the name "So Suave" along with the ads that relate only to getting women ratger than self improvement....

You must be right, after all you're the greatest. /sarcasm

Oh so sorry your highness doublegreatest. /sarcasm

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

You must be right, after all you're the greatest. /sarcasm

Oh so sorry your highness doublegreatest. /sarcasm

Such pathetic attitude coming from a 42 year old man. If you truly were improving yourself, shouldn't you be somewhere else right now?

 

[old_skoolr]

Most women need commitment before they're gonna let you bang them, so in order to ONS they have to be drunk so it's not their fault (public shaming is taken care of), or She's got to be doing it because she just broke up with her boyfriend or upset at her boyfriend or has mental problems. Sex is not Free, you must commit or concede to the woman. You just have to ask yourself, "do I really want to be that guy?" who's just there for her rebound or emotional fix, that next day she'll throw you away? If you're tough, then you can do that and shuck it off when she wants you outta mind outta sight.

Biggest Load of Crap I've ever heard on this forum in the years ive been here.

 

[AnthonyL]

Think of yourself as a basketball player on a cold streak. Every shot you're putting up is a brick. ( maybe you're getting numbers but not closing) the commentators on ESPN and all the fans are talking about how your shot is off. Game after game. But the real winners (Kobe Bryant) keep shooting in a slump. They don't get passive, they shoot through the slump, then one day they start falling again. Success will come.

 

[Asmodeus]

Consistency is everything... I agree with AnthonyL.
Just keep working at it. My suggestion for you is to just approach women, does not need to be just in a bar though that is likely a good place to start as most people go to a bar to socialize and it would likely be less akward for you (also booze for social lubrication). Just go to them, give a friendly smile, a bit of small talk or a witty line, beak the ice a bit. Then try to read their interest level. If they are dismissive, bitchy, or such then just move on. I approach women on a daily basis and I have found that more often than not women enjoy socializing. I have gotten dates from just meeting random women in the mall.
But consistency is the key. The more you work at it the better you become and the easier it becomes as you learn that rejection is not really that bad and you become more comfortable with approaching and socializing with a female.

There is the DJ bible... If you have not read it yet it has a wealth of information that may help you with this.