"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's pretty pathetic in pop music bars am I right?

MillionBillionaire

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Girls get all dressed up to go to the bar and all they do is take turns rejecting and c blocking and carpet munching, even though they are strait.

Guys and mega chodes don't help the cause because all they do is take turns feeding the egos of these 6's, 6.5's from the Midwest, to thinking they are some sort of mini celebrity.

Maybe It's just me being jaded but I refuse to be one of the 3 or 4 guys just standing there drooling next to the girls, that are grinding on each other, rejecting and c blocking like they are little goddesses from the suburbs. That shyt makes me cringe because they are not even hot, most are just decent looking at best.

The bar I go to the guys regularly hook up with girls 1 to 2 points below their smv on average. This is such a shame. It's like online dating only in real life.


Maybe I should try Dennys and Perkins game. Library game? Church game? Going for a run game? Gym game? Mall game? Go back to school game? Beach game? Social circle game?

Oh well, life in the jungle.

Have fun guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I will not judge badly anyone who goes to bars in general and hits chicks up there, but I think it is so rare you meet a nice woman at a bar. All the worthy women I have had and met in my life almost never frequented bars and clubs or they did so on the rare occasion.

I think any other area of flirting gives you higher chances of finding a better woman. Library, streets, subways and all of that.
 

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I used to think about this alot, till I started looking around....they're everywhere! So, the best place to meet girls is in your daily path, assuming you have one.

Situational awareness is key here. Don't go out of your way, or your frame will be weak.
 

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Men are extra thirsty at bars because they think they have a chance to pull. They celebrate when they close a HB 4 as if it's an accomplishment.
 

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I am dumbfounded. A hot 23 yo bar girl said hi and asked me out within 1 minute of walking into the bar today. I literally walked past her at first because she was talking to some guy. All of a sudden I hear "Hi Millionbillionaire!" and of course I couldn't remember her name so I said "Oh Hi!" Shocked this HB8 would do this and I walked away. Then suddenly I remembered her name and I said "Hi hotbargirl," and walked to her booth. The guy bolted. She immediately said "Me and you should go to that wedding together." I didn't even know what she was talking about at that point I was still shocked at what was going on. Then I remembered the night before I told her that one of my friends just met someone and he is about to get married.

I said "Oh yeah! my friend Randon!" I said yeah we should do that and literally took off again after a few seconds.

It then hit me again... I said to myself "Did this girl just ask me out? I better get her number." I go back and I get her number.

we make plans to see Wonder Woman and get sushi and all for Thursday....

I leave her and dont see her for rest of the night

But I got a date, a number and at least something to work with when I see her again.

she said "Don't tell your friends I asked you out you gotta tell them you asked me out."

only thing is we havent started texting yet..



sorry for the long post and field report but the porpus of this was...

shyt can happen.. you got to put yourself out there.


seriously a legit 23 yo white girl works at the bar HB8 I would F the shyt out of her all might Im getting hard just thinking about her.


crazy. Have a good summer yall.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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we make plans to see Wonder Woman and get sushi and all for Thursday.
And when she finds out you're not a million/billionare, you can kiss her good-bye.
 
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