It's possible to spin plates while in a committed relationship.

[saywhen]

Quick story here.

I'm in an exclusive relation with this girl.

One night we went out to the bar with a few of our friends.
One of my said friends is an attractive slutty type chick.
She was giving me praise all night about how great I am.
the three of us make plans to go to my place after ( exclusive girlfriend, female friend and myself)

On our way back to my place my girlfriend gets a call from some friends about some house party and askes if we can go. It sounds like a dive of a plan for me so I state I'm not interested. She then says she wants to go anyway.

My response was a simple " fine, go. Me and my friend will just chill at my place alone "

This of course set her hamster in overdrive.
I was never planing on banging my chick friend, but she was worried that i would and decided not to go to the house party.

Its totally possible to spin plates while in a commited relationship.

Frame. check
High value. check
Social proof. check

 

[Maximus Rex]

What You're Asking is a Contradiction in Terms

Question, why would you want to spin plates while in a committed relationship? It sounds as if what you truly want to is to have a steady supply of nookie, while being able to bang other chicks. If that's that case, you should break up with your current girlfriend so you can indulge in coitus with other women, then you'll be free to bang other chicks. This will also remove the possibility of acrimony between you and your girlfriend because you won't be cheating on her.

 

[saywhen]

It's not a matter of spinning plates per say.
Just that my girlfriend saw me as high value in the eyes of another women.
Though I would not cheat on her, the thought of it came to her.
I believe this keeps my frame, since she acts according in fear of me walking.
I have no desire to bang multiple chicks.
So far this one is what i am looking for.

 

[Don-Kong]

That's just bad-boy attitude, I don't care sort of thing. And yeah, it works.

But actively doing it because you want your girlfriend more seems a pointless endeavour. Keeping her keen is fine but there's no need to overdo it, you are with her. Plus you can still be friends with other chicks so no hassle.

Just dont try to make her jealous or spin her head too much, since you'll end up with a messy GF and its harsh for those who dont know whats going on in the background. Not saying you are doing this but you get me bro.

 

[saywhen]

Thanks for the advice don kong.

Sure i already have her but I feel those little reminders that I'm a prize to others helps me keep her interest.

Games not over once you get her.

Continuous social proof helps

 

[Don-Kong]

I hear ya homes.

But its all internal. You are the prize, yup. If you fully believe it, then you dont need anyone else to know it, they will know.

It comes from your energy within. Your presence. You don't need to show it or make others think it. They will know it from your inner state. Inner game.

That, that stuff is infectious, desirable, magnetic. Thats the real shizzle yo.
Work it homes

 

[DonGorgon]

i hate doing hit but you really have to cause m,pst females are always spinning plats and can lean you at any moment..

 

[j0504s]

Re read your title, its contradictory. If you are committed then why would you want to. The commitment is clearly one sided then.