"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My pee pee + her mouth = good times.
 
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she wants to turn girls into *****s. maybe we do need to go back to more "traditional" roles in society....
 
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or,I bought into certain false ideas....

plus,i see girls who sleep around/are too active at an early age as sluts/*****s.
 
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She's right on the money... i don't see what the problem is.

I wish all states would drop this abstinence only bullsh1t, it's not working.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't see what your problem with her is? She actually seems very reasonable for a feminist. Are you seriously saying abstinance only sex ed is a good thing??? Let me guess, you also think Palin would make a great VP.
 
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I fail to see the problem. Abstinence only education is the stupidest thing. It has been proven time and again that it simply doesn't work. The only thing you end up with is people who are ignorant of their own sexuality.
 
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no. I am not supporting palin,nor believe in abstinence only,what I do believe in,is women knowing there place,and not slutting around at an early age. we need to reset some things. we need to get back some tradition.
 
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And presumably you are willing to also wait until you're 20+ and married before having sex?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No. not necessarily. But that's what's happened. It's not that I support abstinence only, but feel that the current sex ed programs undercut familites/values, and create a sense of competition amongst kids, and teach just how to have sex,anytime anywhere. Not how to love and care for one another. It also encourages risky promiscuity.
 
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I disagree. Peer pressure, the media, curiousity, and raging hormones and a sex drive cause promiscuity in young people.

Sex ed only does good. As if anybody taking sex ed didn't know all the juicy details before? That kind of stuff you pick up outside the class room, its the safe sex info that you might not get anywhere else. Of course its not hard to find that information, but many kids won't bother.

The bottom line is that the US is undeniably backward in its regard for sexuality, especially with young people. Many other developed countries have fewer teen pregnancies and STDs even though their teens have plenty of sex and there is no sheltering of them. Hell when I was in Britian this summer there was full frontal nudity on BBC, a publicly funded channel! Much like alcohol control, we have problems with it because we make it a big deal. If it was just a part of life that people are gradually exposed to as they grow up, it would be less of a problem.

But in North America, sex is bad. Well guess what young people just LOVE to do? Rebel, do what they're not supposed to, be it listening to weird music, getting tattoos and piercings, or having sex when you're not really ready.
 
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Well,maybe that's where my bitterness comes from. Also, people like her don't help. I see people like her as something wrong with the country,something we should be fighting against.

I feel,some of it comes from perhaps lack of such courses. I only had it once in middle school. That's it. Everything else,I learned from said media,or even porn. So I may look at things a little unrealistically. I mean seriously, I feel almost embarrased about it. Or perhaps because I believe in the idea of love.
 
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dude (OP) of all the videos on you tube, HOW IN THE HELL did you come across that one? It only has 3K views. You had to SEARCH for that. Is that how you spend your free time? looking for things to anger you? Have you any idea how much soft porn, girls bouncing up and down in bikinis there are on you tube, how much funny clips of movies, how many inspiring speeches, how many different resources to empower yourself, clips of clint eastwood killing people with his trademark cigar shift, magic johnson basketball highlights, michael jordon commercials,OLD SUPERBOWL COMMERCIALS, and and and.. and you spend time looking for THAT WITCH?

Dude, really.
 
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