"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's Official...

sac_hot_male

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Its official that i'm a pu$$y...

i been here for couple of months, read the DJ Bible, read LOTS of these forum, ask for help from other members in here, do the search, and pretty much everything...there's nothing i cant do about it

today i just got a cell phone, trust me on this, i go through tons of trouble with my parents just to get this cell phone...i say to myself that since i been here for a while, i can get some chicks #...i plan on getting this chick at my work place #, but did i get it....NO...did i talk to her?...YES...we had 5 hrs together and i couldnt even ask for it...i finaly found out the truth about myslef...i'm a pu$$y...will and has always been one....

perhaps i'm leaving forever....thanks for all of you that spent the time to help me...i'll just be a pu$$y and accept whose i am

"the first lesson in life is..you have to accept whose you are"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i am me

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ya man, its like givin up in the first quarter
 

Zeus

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"Even when i suffer defeats, i count the Victories"

Bull**** man, u wont give up. want us the feel pity for you, but deep inside you still want to mack that perfect 10. So shut up with that crap and dont waste time, take babysteps and you will soon learn how to run like a champion!
 

Hitman10000

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All I can say is that I've been cell phone free for an entire year and I've got numbers/emails left and right from plenty of girls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phyzzle

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Heh, you're still in high school, right.

You're going to be a completely different person, several times over, over the next decade. Trust me.
 

sac_hot_male

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you guys dont get it...i been here for a couples of months...i did just about everything...including FR.....i will claim myself as in the "good looking" cataglory....but my conversational skills sucks big time...i'm a quite person which i been trying my best to start talking more often...its works but only have improve a little bit....

i'm not typing this so you guys can feel sorry for me...i'm typing this because theres no hope for me and wants you guys to notice that i have been here....

i dont think theres nothing i can do to change who i am.....
 

Eccentric

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A couple months? I've been learning this stuff since I was 18, I'll be 23 next month. Read my signature.
 

Life-Trainee

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Anything worth getting in this life is an uphill battle. Don't expect quick results. It's not gonna get easier any time soon.

Set realistic goals for yourself and take it easy. It takes YEARS to develop optimal personality for pickup especially when you're starting from 0. And you've been at this for, MONTHS? Give me a break.

Begin improving your life by building value as a person. Do you have issues in you life kinda hanging in the air? All people do. Work on that. Set short term goals that you know you can complete on time. If you're in school concentrate on your studies.

Meanwhile work with what you got when it comes to women and be greatful for what you have already. Yes, you may have to lower your standards. Get blown out, slapped, **** up, screw up, , fail miserably. Extrapolate positive lesson from that, rinse and repeat.

Don't be hard on yourself and be proud of your accomplishments.

How you feel about your life has a direct effect on your confidence and interactions with people.
 

sac_hot_male

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but i just cant do it right......i tried and i failed....simple.....i love this site and would like to thank those people that take their time to read this bu11sh1t... i think i should give it another try....

i'll be back and if i failed to get that number, its for sure that i'm a pu$$y
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Randomer

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mmm, you've only truly failed when you stop trying, if you keep trying, the "failures" just become learning experiences to bring you to success *bows head*
 
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