"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's Official...

sac_hot_male

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Its official that i'm a pu$$y...

i been here for couple of months, read the DJ Bible, read LOTS of these forum, ask for help from other members in here, do the search, and pretty much everything...there's nothing i cant do about it

today i just got a cell phone, trust me on this, i go through tons of trouble with my parents just to get this cell phone...i say to myself that since i been here for a while, i can get some chicks #...i plan on getting this chick at my work place #, but did i get it....NO...did i talk to her?...YES...we had 5 hrs together and i couldnt even ask for it...i finaly found out the truth about myslef...i'm a pu$$y...will and has always been one....

perhaps i'm leaving forever....thanks for all of you that spent the time to help me...i'll just be a pu$$y and accept whose i am

"the first lesson in life is..you have to accept whose you are"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i am me

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ya man, its like givin up in the first quarter
 

Zeus

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"Even when i suffer defeats, i count the Victories"

Bull**** man, u wont give up. want us the feel pity for you, but deep inside you still want to mack that perfect 10. So shut up with that crap and dont waste time, take babysteps and you will soon learn how to run like a champion!
 

Hitman10000

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All I can say is that I've been cell phone free for an entire year and I've got numbers/emails left and right from plenty of girls.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Phyzzle

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Heh, you're still in high school, right.

You're going to be a completely different person, several times over, over the next decade. Trust me.
 

sac_hot_male

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you guys dont get it...i been here for a couples of months...i did just about everything...including FR.....i will claim myself as in the "good looking" cataglory....but my conversational skills sucks big time...i'm a quite person which i been trying my best to start talking more often...its works but only have improve a little bit....

i'm not typing this so you guys can feel sorry for me...i'm typing this because theres no hope for me and wants you guys to notice that i have been here....

i dont think theres nothing i can do to change who i am.....
 

Eccentric

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A couple months? I've been learning this stuff since I was 18, I'll be 23 next month. Read my signature.
 

Life-Trainee

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Anything worth getting in this life is an uphill battle. Don't expect quick results. It's not gonna get easier any time soon.

Set realistic goals for yourself and take it easy. It takes YEARS to develop optimal personality for pickup especially when you're starting from 0. And you've been at this for, MONTHS? Give me a break.

Begin improving your life by building value as a person. Do you have issues in you life kinda hanging in the air? All people do. Work on that. Set short term goals that you know you can complete on time. If you're in school concentrate on your studies.

Meanwhile work with what you got when it comes to women and be greatful for what you have already. Yes, you may have to lower your standards. Get blown out, slapped, **** up, screw up, , fail miserably. Extrapolate positive lesson from that, rinse and repeat.

Don't be hard on yourself and be proud of your accomplishments.

How you feel about your life has a direct effect on your confidence and interactions with people.
 

sac_hot_male

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but i just cant do it right......i tried and i failed....simple.....i love this site and would like to thank those people that take their time to read this bu11sh1t... i think i should give it another try....

i'll be back and if i failed to get that number, its for sure that i'm a pu$$y
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Randomer

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mmm, you've only truly failed when you stop trying, if you keep trying, the "failures" just become learning experiences to bring you to success *bows head*
 
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