It's not working.

[Tom00]

I am so down at the moment. It's not happening for me. I've been on this site since 2002 and i've had 0 success.
I'm 17 years old, and I've never kissed a girl, never mind lost my virginity.
I hit the gym four times a week, I'm the most ripped guy at school. I'm not ugly, infact i'm about an 8 in looks. None of this matters however, because girls just arn't interested. I have one friend (a girl), who LJBF'd me, and treats me like crap, but I can't get rid because I have no-one else. I have no guy mates. I'm a funny guy, I'm interesting, but I might aswell be dead. I've busted my ass trying all this Dj stuff. I got rid of my glasses, joined a team, but all to no avail. I just don't have that "it" factor that every other guy seems to have. I give up, there's no-one been attracted to me in 17 years, and it's a crushing thought that I can't escape.

 

[CrizzleGA]

been here for 2 years and THAT was your first post?

 

[Tom00]

Evidently....and it's actually 3 years.

 

[Docs]

I'm 18. Same situation (I'm not ripped though, but I got some ****yness )

I find it very unusual how you have only one friend. You MUST, must...please tell me that you talk to somebody else on a regular basis...please.

Now...tell me about how you react with the people on your team..do you shell up and isolate yourself..or do you talk, got some buddas...you know..tell me something. Then...hang out with them...not some team go-geter crap, like actual hanging out, play some video games...build a friend base...and sarge.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Theres no way there arent any girls attracted to you.

 

[Tom00]

*sigh*

Yeah, there's others I talk to, but not as close as her. Yeah, I'm cool with the guys on the team, but I'm still getting to know them. I know this just sounds like me self-pitying, but I have tried my hardest with aload of girls, and all I get is LJBF. The last one told an aqaintance of mine:

He's smart, funny, good looking, interesting, great to be around, a proper man, but I just don't fancy him.

So actually told me "you're too nice to sleep with (guessing thats the prob), if we started going out and then finished I'd never see you again, and I don't want that" perlease....

Thats what I'm on about, I have all those qualities, but I just can't make it "click". I will keep trying, but it's a hard thought to stomach, that so far I havn't had any success.

 

[Docs]

you got everything a girl wants...all you need is attracting then (C&F!)

Why..because I'm a perfect guy (minus looks to them, I think I look good..from before), same deal.

Keep updating!

 

[Tom00]

I will do, there's no way I'm whining and giving up. It was just a sobering thought, to be 17, and have done nothing with a girl. Time for some cold approaches I think, high school girls suck.

 

[KaminoSS]

Originally posted by Tom00
I will do, there's no way I'm whining and giving up.

high school girls suck.

keep going dont stop till you hit your mark, and quite so they do.......

 

[Docs]

"done nothing with a girl"

here.

 

[pr0teus]

Same situation, 18 in a few weeks.

Although I don't go to the gym, I have a nerdy style to blame it on.

btw, whatteheck do you mean by 'LJBF'?

 

[Docs]

LJBF

You are fu'ked with girl x.
or to be nicer...

SCREWED.

 

[pr0teus]

What, is it some kind of abbreviation?
Or did you just choose some arbitrary letters?

Obviously I can't read minds.

And what's with all the euphemistic spellings? Why don't they just disable the censoring. Weather you spell it '****' or 'fvck', it's still means the same. So what's the point? I thought I read somewhere you weren't allowed to use profanity.

Edit: added an apostrophe where appropriate

 

[steroidsrule]

wow bro stop being so nerdy.... to proteus...and speakin from a kid who just started gettin in the game... one thing i use is just smiling in the hallways... i dunno why but it works...tell yourself a funny joke and just smile as you walk in the hallwayus between periods... all your guy friends will slap your hand and what not and girls will look at you and think "hes always smiling....he must have confidence" therefore building mystery... i know its noit alot bro but you gotta try somethin... hope i helped alittle

 

[pr0teus]

Hmm...that makes sense. Thanks

 

[Vincent]

Keep trying.