"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its not what you say its what you dont say.

check_mate_kid_uk

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Sure there are certain things you can say to a girl which are good things to say and could increse attraction such as a compliment, but i realised something. Much of the impresion a girl will make is based on the sound of your voice and your body language, there is research done that supports this fact that this accounts for 90% of the first impression.

I realised why people say be yourself, and thats because its true, just be genuine and yourself and there is no special things you need to say, only certain things oyu need to avoid saying.

You need to avoid bosting about yourself.

Dont talk about a subject that will bore her e.g. technical details of your car.

Dont try and sell yourself by telling her every detail about your life, an interesting and relevant story yes but not too much.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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42-Colrath

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I definitely get what youre saying but how about your voice? I cant seem to figure out my voice lol. When im around people I change it subconconciuosly. It changes when im around afrimericans, then it changes around close friends, then it changes around family, then it changes around girls. I think i sound really gay around the girls. Like a girl will totally dig me but when I talk it can sometimes cost me a number. How do I find my voice lol?
 

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Only you can figure that out.
why don't I help you out w. question...

How do you find you?
 
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