"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its not what you say its what you dont say.

check_mate_kid_uk

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Sure there are certain things you can say to a girl which are good things to say and could increse attraction such as a compliment, but i realised something. Much of the impresion a girl will make is based on the sound of your voice and your body language, there is research done that supports this fact that this accounts for 90% of the first impression.

I realised why people say be yourself, and thats because its true, just be genuine and yourself and there is no special things you need to say, only certain things oyu need to avoid saying.

You need to avoid bosting about yourself.

Dont talk about a subject that will bore her e.g. technical details of your car.

Dont try and sell yourself by telling her every detail about your life, an interesting and relevant story yes but not too much.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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42-Colrath

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I definitely get what youre saying but how about your voice? I cant seem to figure out my voice lol. When im around people I change it subconconciuosly. It changes when im around afrimericans, then it changes around close friends, then it changes around family, then it changes around girls. I think i sound really gay around the girls. Like a girl will totally dig me but when I talk it can sometimes cost me a number. How do I find my voice lol?
 

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Only you can figure that out.
why don't I help you out w. question...

How do you find you?
 
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