Its not always good to be the alpha male of your group

[DJnoob]

agree or disagree and why do you think

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

For getting chicks i disagree,for making other males jealous i agree

 

[Monster]

For when you get in trouble with the cops; that's the only scenario where I can see it would be bad to be the 'leader' of the pack.

 

[womenarebiatches]

When you are the wolf you have a lot of power and influence. Whether people will like you or not it's better than the sheep. Because the sheep will be used and abused. The wolves will just run over you.

 

[DJnoob]

For getting chicks i disagree,for making other males jealous i agree

for getting chicks? is it because the other guys will get jelous and turn their back against you

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

If the other guys get jealous its a plus for you,alot of us seem to forget about "natural selection",and thats exactly why afcs fail.Always lead,act and take responsibility.

 

[poohead]

with great power comes great responsibility

 

[Boschy]

Are you kidding? Alpha every time for me. There is no down side.

 

[brucevangeorge]

If you think that you are the so-called self-proclaimed Alpha.. chances are that you aren't.

 

[organizedconfusion]

If you think that you are the so-called self-proclaimed Alpha.. chances are that you aren't.

that's soo true..theres nothing more annoying than a group of guys arguing because they all want to go to the place THEY want to go for the night,and not opening up to any other suggestions! :cuss:

everyone wants to be a leader but no one wants to listen, all too busy trying to take charge and tell everyone else what to do..soo fvcking obnoxious, sometimes you have to tell everyone to shut the fvck up in order to get things done now,who's the 'real alpha' - it's not always the one in charge that has the most power, but the one that get's things done one way or the other. IMO.

it reminds me of a guy that kept woofin' at me about all the shyte he was gonna do to me getting all wrailed up and everything for no apparent reason..i sock the guy so hard he let out a squirm like a little girl..i didn't say anything..he had it coming to him is that alpha? who cares? i say that theres no set rule for anything..

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

If you think that you are the so-called self-proclaimed Alpha.. chances are that you aren't.

True, and wouldn't you think that the problem with most guys is that they worry about social status way more than appealing to women? It's as if just because they're the leader of a bunch of cavemen that women will flock to them. It's crazy what guys will do to define themselves.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

only bad thing about an alpha male is that they maY GET INTO FIGHTS WITH OTHER ALPHA MALES, OR SOMETHING MORE COMMON PEOPLE IN YOUR GROUP WILL TRY AND DISRESPECT YOU, AND CHALLENGE YOU FOR THE POSITION ( THEY DO IT SUBCONSIOUSLY) AND YOU RISK LOSING YOUR POULARITY AND ALSO BEING TRAMPELLED ON... THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE AND IM NOT EXACTLY THE BIGGEST GUY OR THE MOST VIOLENT, AND NOW I AM IN A BAD POSITION WITH GUYS DISRESPECTING ME FROM ALL ANGLES...

Very good point. We've all seen it in all areas (even in this forum) the higher you go beyond the masses, the more of a target you become. There's always someone somewhere wanting to knock you down a peg and to climb over you. Not saying that it's right or wrong, it's just the way that it is.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Its good on a whole lot of levles, but when me and my freind and some girls we where with got started on once by some chavs, it was me that they confronted. as physicaly i am slightly bigger then my freind.