"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Its not always good to be the alpha male of your group
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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organizedconfusion
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that's soo true..theres nothing more annoying than a group of guys arguing because they all want to go to the place THEY want to go for the night,and not opening up to any other suggestions! :cuss:brucevangeorge said:
everyone wants to be a leader but no one wants to listen, all too busy trying to take charge and tell everyone else what to do..soo fvcking obnoxious, sometimes you have to tell everyone to shut the fvck up in order to get things done
now,who's the 'real alpha' - it's not always the one in charge that has the most power, but the one that get's things done one way or the other. IMO.it reminds me of a guy that kept woofin' at me about all the shyte he was gonna do to me getting all wrailed up and everything for no apparent reason..i sock the guy so hard he let out a squirm like a little girl..i didn't say anything..he had it coming to him
is that alpha? who cares? i say that theres no set rule for anything.."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
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True, and wouldn't you think that the problem with most guys is that they worry about social status way more than appealing to women? It's as if just because they're the leader of a bunch of cavemen that women will flock to them. It's crazy what guys will do to define themselves.brucevangeorge said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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Very good point. We've all seen it in all areas (even in this forum) the higher you go beyond the masses, the more of a target you become. There's always someone somewhere wanting to knock you down a peg and to climb over you. Not saying that it's right or wrong, it's just the way that it is.Noob said: