Guoy Darko
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Well it's not an extreme big problem, but because I find myself a lot in these situations it kind of is.......
I've been dating this girl now for almost 2 months, but because we only see eachother only once or twice a week things are sometimes a bit awkward. When we call or mail eachother it is almost like we're normal friends, but when we're together we start holding hands, kissing or we end up in bed together. I still have no clue if we're still dating or if we're already boy- and girlfriend. Both is fine with me, but it's just that I don't know.
By the way, she is the first girl EVER I date that is older than me. So I'm kind of unfamilliar with this. I'm now 24 and most of the girls I've dated the last few years were between 18 and 22. (A lot of flakey behavious I must say.) This girl is 25 and almost 26.
Okay, to get to the point: I'm starting to realize that most of the times I'm the one who is making the plans for dates and what we're going to do. Also last weekend. I send her a text message on friday to say I'm going to a play of a friend of mine on saturday and I would love it if she would join me. She sends me a message back apologizing that she can't come because she's going away on saturday to friends of here in another city. I tell her to have fun and that's it.
Now I haven't heard anything from her since friday night. I don't know what she's expecting. That I should come up with another plan or not? I don't know if I should think "It's not a big deal" or that "I shouldn't take crap from her." Both I've read a lot on sosuave.net.
Any suggestions? Thanks mates.
I've been dating this girl now for almost 2 months, but because we only see eachother only once or twice a week things are sometimes a bit awkward. When we call or mail eachother it is almost like we're normal friends, but when we're together we start holding hands, kissing or we end up in bed together. I still have no clue if we're still dating or if we're already boy- and girlfriend. Both is fine with me, but it's just that I don't know.
By the way, she is the first girl EVER I date that is older than me. So I'm kind of unfamilliar with this. I'm now 24 and most of the girls I've dated the last few years were between 18 and 22. (A lot of flakey behavious I must say.) This girl is 25 and almost 26.
Okay, to get to the point: I'm starting to realize that most of the times I'm the one who is making the plans for dates and what we're going to do. Also last weekend. I send her a text message on friday to say I'm going to a play of a friend of mine on saturday and I would love it if she would join me. She sends me a message back apologizing that she can't come because she's going away on saturday to friends of here in another city. I tell her to have fun and that's it.
Now I haven't heard anything from her since friday night. I don't know what she's expecting. That I should come up with another plan or not? I don't know if I should think "It's not a big deal" or that "I shouldn't take crap from her." Both I've read a lot on sosuave.net.
Any suggestions? Thanks mates.