MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's nice to see a woman with a goal in life
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
High Voltage
Don Juan
Wait... someone had sex with her? Scary.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Her mother would be so proud.
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
That's an awful big goal!!! It is because of people like that, caused me to blow a disc out at my C 6/7!!!!!!!!!!! As a result, I lost my job and have a 25% total body disability.MatureDJ said:
Thanks to all you lard a$$ed folks that are even too lazy to help you help them when it comes time to put them on the stretcher!!
At least she has a goal, right!!!!!!!!????????
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You know what's gold? I've got to reinstall Firefox since my extensions are currently borked, and one of them is adblock. Meaning, I see all the ads on webpages now.
Ad on the top of the page: "Browse Thousands of Lesbian Singles on Zoosk."
I can't stop laughing.
Ad on the top of the page: "Browse Thousands of Lesbian Singles on Zoosk."
I can't stop laughing.
Bluntmaster
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kingsam
Master Don Juan
how the fu.ck did u guys even get onto this ?
she should be shot....
she should be shot....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mr.Positive
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Thanks man..I didn't need to see that.Bluntmaster said:
We all say about goals....think big!! This gal is doing just that...the problem though, is she's consuming the amount of food that could feed a small village.
So, I say, think big!! but try and make a small footprint in the process.