MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's nice to see a woman with a goal in life
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
High Voltage
Don Juan
Wait... someone had sex with her? Scary.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Her mother would be so proud.
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
That's an awful big goal!!! It is because of people like that, caused me to blow a disc out at my C 6/7!!!!!!!!!!! As a result, I lost my job and have a 25% total body disability.MatureDJ said:
Thanks to all you lard a$$ed folks that are even too lazy to help you help them when it comes time to put them on the stretcher!!
At least she has a goal, right!!!!!!!!????????
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You know what's gold? I've got to reinstall Firefox since my extensions are currently borked, and one of them is adblock. Meaning, I see all the ads on webpages now.
Ad on the top of the page: "Browse Thousands of Lesbian Singles on Zoosk."
I can't stop laughing.
Ad on the top of the page: "Browse Thousands of Lesbian Singles on Zoosk."
I can't stop laughing.
Bluntmaster
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kingsam
Master Don Juan
how the fu.ck did u guys even get onto this ?
she should be shot....
she should be shot....
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr.Positive
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Thanks man..I didn't need to see that.Bluntmaster said:
We all say about goals....think big!! This gal is doing just that...the problem though, is she's consuming the amount of food that could feed a small village.
So, I say, think big!! but try and make a small footprint in the process.