"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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its just too late for us

blackbelt2k

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I've been a member of this community for a while now. I've learned alot, especially about myself. Tonight I hit a club up in daytona, and I have come to the conclusion that for those of us that want a good woman, it's just too late. They do not exist. Since joining sosuave, and improving, becoming more aware of myself, I've continually found that women in this time and age will just not hold up to what i want in a soulmate. I get women coming on to me, I've gotten great at seducing women, but after a while, I just don't know what to do with myself anymore. My standards aren't high, as long as i am attracted to a woman, I give them a chance. But through my experiences, all i have to report is dismay at the female gender. As good as a ***** may feel while fuvking it, I have yet to find one thats worth more than just a piece of ass. I give up, this generation of women is ridiculous and insulting to the human race.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blackbelt2k said:
My standards aren't high, as long as i am attracted to a woman, I give them a chance.
And here is where you fail. You've got to have standards. Girls love a man who knows what he wants. You are the prize, not these women. Turn this crap in your favor. You don't have to agree on the same sh1t they do, but she'll love that you stand for something and just don't hang yourself out there. These women need to give up on this generation of men because they are not real mean. They're all fvcking emasculated.
 

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tick37 said:
And here is where you fail. You've got to have standards. Girls love a man who knows what he wants. You are the prize, not these women. Turn this crap in your favor. You don't have to agree on the same sh1t, but she'll love that you stand for something and just don't hang yourself out there. These women need to give up on this generation of men because they are not real mean. They're all fvcking emasculated.
no you misunderstood, I mean as long as a woman is attractive and has something going for her I give them a chance. Like i've said, i've gotten good at getting laid, but I want more and the women today just can't offer what i want. For those of us that have broken free, I just think its too late.
 

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So there is not one woman on this earth that can give you what you want? There are over 3 billion women on this earth, and you're saying there's not one.
 

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You have to have more than "if she's attractive and something going for her". There are threads on here about "deal breakers" and all sorts of things. Why? Because these men value themselves. If you have value, you won't just take anything. If these women see value in you, they will meet those standards. They will not value you if you don't value yourself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don't worry man you are not alone. 50% of all marriages fail. That's just the ones that decide to call it quits. How many of the 50 percent that stay together are miserable but stay together for the kids or for financial reasons. Maybe another 30 percent?

There are so many variables that the odds of finding your soul mate is extremely rare. There's also a good chance that the girl that would be perfect for you might also weigh 200 pounds and you would never even give her a chance.

I say keep banging chicks and just find other things that make you happy. Travelling, sports, working out, poker, video games etc........theres so many great things in life besides women.

Everybody says the honeymoon is after you get married. I say the honeymoon is the first 2 months you are with a girl. The first date, first kiss, first time you grab her boobs, first time you tear that ass up. It's really all downhill from there. So stop looking for the PERECT woman and just enjoy as many different women as you can. I mean would you really want to be stuck with one piece of ass for the rest of your life?
 
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