"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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its just too late for us

blackbelt2k

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I've been a member of this community for a while now. I've learned alot, especially about myself. Tonight I hit a club up in daytona, and I have come to the conclusion that for those of us that want a good woman, it's just too late. They do not exist. Since joining sosuave, and improving, becoming more aware of myself, I've continually found that women in this time and age will just not hold up to what i want in a soulmate. I get women coming on to me, I've gotten great at seducing women, but after a while, I just don't know what to do with myself anymore. My standards aren't high, as long as i am attracted to a woman, I give them a chance. But through my experiences, all i have to report is dismay at the female gender. As good as a ***** may feel while fuvking it, I have yet to find one thats worth more than just a piece of ass. I give up, this generation of women is ridiculous and insulting to the human race.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blackbelt2k said:
My standards aren't high, as long as i am attracted to a woman, I give them a chance.
And here is where you fail. You've got to have standards. Girls love a man who knows what he wants. You are the prize, not these women. Turn this crap in your favor. You don't have to agree on the same sh1t they do, but she'll love that you stand for something and just don't hang yourself out there. These women need to give up on this generation of men because they are not real mean. They're all fvcking emasculated.
 

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tick37 said:
And here is where you fail. You've got to have standards. Girls love a man who knows what he wants. You are the prize, not these women. Turn this crap in your favor. You don't have to agree on the same sh1t, but she'll love that you stand for something and just don't hang yourself out there. These women need to give up on this generation of men because they are not real mean. They're all fvcking emasculated.
no you misunderstood, I mean as long as a woman is attractive and has something going for her I give them a chance. Like i've said, i've gotten good at getting laid, but I want more and the women today just can't offer what i want. For those of us that have broken free, I just think its too late.
 

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So there is not one woman on this earth that can give you what you want? There are over 3 billion women on this earth, and you're saying there's not one.
 

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You have to have more than "if she's attractive and something going for her". There are threads on here about "deal breakers" and all sorts of things. Why? Because these men value themselves. If you have value, you won't just take anything. If these women see value in you, they will meet those standards. They will not value you if you don't value yourself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't worry man you are not alone. 50% of all marriages fail. That's just the ones that decide to call it quits. How many of the 50 percent that stay together are miserable but stay together for the kids or for financial reasons. Maybe another 30 percent?

There are so many variables that the odds of finding your soul mate is extremely rare. There's also a good chance that the girl that would be perfect for you might also weigh 200 pounds and you would never even give her a chance.

I say keep banging chicks and just find other things that make you happy. Travelling, sports, working out, poker, video games etc........theres so many great things in life besides women.

Everybody says the honeymoon is after you get married. I say the honeymoon is the first 2 months you are with a girl. The first date, first kiss, first time you grab her boobs, first time you tear that ass up. It's really all downhill from there. So stop looking for the PERECT woman and just enjoy as many different women as you can. I mean would you really want to be stuck with one piece of ass for the rest of your life?
 
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