"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sozzz

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I have 2nd degree hemorrhoids, atleast I think. If I had severe degree, I don't think I can even move or even do anything.

Anyway, I was hoping if there's any experts on health and fitness could tell me if there's any possibility I could gain weight while having hemorrhoids. I used to weight 145-150, now I'm down to 120-130. I have had hemorrhoids for almost 2 years now. I have gone to the doctor, and all he gave me was cream and pills for the pain. He said if it doesnt go away then it's surgery. No way in hell am I going to do it, I refused to resort to that. I eat only veggies, fruits, and rice with soups. I avoid fried, spicy, and meat. I don't see how I'll gain weight if I avoid meat..

I was hoping you guys could give me some advice to maybe get rid of my hemorrhoids or ways for me to gain my weight back. Another thing is when I take a #2, it doesn't hurt, but it hurts afterward when I stand up or lay down. Sometimes I'm afraid to eat large portions..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude, when it comes to your health you should not try to compromise, you have a condition that needs to be fixed. You cannot gain weight like you want to without having a proper amount of protein which IMO is very hard when avoiding meats.

You could try a mass gainer, I suggest Optimum Nutrition, their products are top notch.

http://www.bodybuilding.com/store/opt/sm.html
 

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sozzz said:
I have 2nd degree hemorrhoids, atleast I think. If I had severe degree, I don't think I can even move or even do anything.

Anyway, I was hoping if there's any experts on health and fitness could tell me if there's any possibility I could gain weight while having hemorrhoids. I used to weight 145-150, now I'm down to 120-130. I have had hemorrhoids for almost 2 years now. I have gone to the doctor, and all he gave me was cream and pills for the pain. He said if it doesnt go away then it's surgery. No way in hell am I going to do it, I refused to resort to that. I eat only veggies, fruits, and rice with soups. I avoid fried, spicy, and meat. I don't see how I'll gain weight if I avoid meat..

I was hoping you guys could give me some advice to maybe get rid of my hemorrhoids or ways for me to gain my weight back. Another thing is when I take a #2, it doesn't hurt, but it hurts afterward when I stand up or lay down. Sometimes I'm afraid to eat large portions..
If its such a bad thing that you are in so much pain and it interferes with what you do along with the fact you say nothing has worked then maybe surgery is your only option. Get this issue fixed first man.
 

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sozzz said:
I was hoping you guys could give me some advice to maybe get rid of my hemorrhoids...

If you have had hemorrhoids for 2 years, you need surgery. Go see a general or colorectal surgeon. If you dont want it then be willing to live with them indefinitely. It doesnt sound like conservative treatment is working for you.
 
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