"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its Haunting My Mind!

jadeona13

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I dont know why, but this always haunts my mind.

About a year ago, i started to have interest in a girl(she is my girlfriend now)..Not so much interest, it was just beginning. However, I didnt think anything of it. Everytime I would talk to her, she would just say( to someone else)..ohh Michael is so hott I want him so bad..so i just let it go and forgot about her..Plus, Michael was my good friend so I let him haev the girl..

6 months passed. Michael and the girl(who is now my gf), dont talk anymore. I went out with my girlfriend for about a month or so when we started talking about each other's past. She told me she was at a house party with Mike and they hooked up all night and she gave him head. They kept talking until me and the girl started to gain a lot of interest in each other. So now they stopped talkin, and i stopped takin to Mike.

My girlfriend told me alot about her past and everything she did. I didnt care about any of it. Except the Mike thing that is. Everytime i see Mike, i picture my girlfriends head on his d!ck, and i cant control it..

this has never happend. Normally i wouldnt care what she did. Maybe its because Mike has a Mustang convertible, is rich, tall, and very goodlooking and im just jealous. Or maybe its because its the first time my gf gave head to someone, when it could have been me?

I dont kno, but how do i get over this? I am taking out my anger/insecurities out of my girl...she got me mad the other day and i called her a skank by accident!..HELPP
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MooseGod

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She's not a skank for what she did, however she is a cold hard ***** for telling you about it. Unless you asked her, then it's on you. I think a "don't ask, don't tell" policy is best.

Seriously though man, you don't own this girl. You have a past and so does she, but leave the past in the past. Thinking about it will only drag you down.
 

jadeona13

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MooseGod said:
She's not a skank for what she did, however she is a cold hard ***** for telling you about it. Unless you asked her, then it's on you. I think a "don't ask, don't tell" policy is best.

Seriously though man, you don't own this girl. You have a past and so does she, but leave the past in the past. Thinking about it will only drag you down.
I know, your right. I know a lot about her past, but i dont care about it. I dont know why this on incident bothers me so much.. I try not to think about it!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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