"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its Haunting My Mind!

jadeona13

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I dont know why, but this always haunts my mind.

About a year ago, i started to have interest in a girl(she is my girlfriend now)..Not so much interest, it was just beginning. However, I didnt think anything of it. Everytime I would talk to her, she would just say( to someone else)..ohh Michael is so hott I want him so bad..so i just let it go and forgot about her..Plus, Michael was my good friend so I let him haev the girl..

6 months passed. Michael and the girl(who is now my gf), dont talk anymore. I went out with my girlfriend for about a month or so when we started talking about each other's past. She told me she was at a house party with Mike and they hooked up all night and she gave him head. They kept talking until me and the girl started to gain a lot of interest in each other. So now they stopped talkin, and i stopped takin to Mike.

My girlfriend told me alot about her past and everything she did. I didnt care about any of it. Except the Mike thing that is. Everytime i see Mike, i picture my girlfriends head on his d!ck, and i cant control it..

this has never happend. Normally i wouldnt care what she did. Maybe its because Mike has a Mustang convertible, is rich, tall, and very goodlooking and im just jealous. Or maybe its because its the first time my gf gave head to someone, when it could have been me?

I dont kno, but how do i get over this? I am taking out my anger/insecurities out of my girl...she got me mad the other day and i called her a skank by accident!..HELPP
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MooseGod

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She's not a skank for what she did, however she is a cold hard ***** for telling you about it. Unless you asked her, then it's on you. I think a "don't ask, don't tell" policy is best.

Seriously though man, you don't own this girl. You have a past and so does she, but leave the past in the past. Thinking about it will only drag you down.
 

jadeona13

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MooseGod said:
She's not a skank for what she did, however she is a cold hard ***** for telling you about it. Unless you asked her, then it's on you. I think a "don't ask, don't tell" policy is best.

Seriously though man, you don't own this girl. You have a past and so does she, but leave the past in the past. Thinking about it will only drag you down.
I know, your right. I know a lot about her past, but i dont care about it. I dont know why this on incident bothers me so much.. I try not to think about it!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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