"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its Haunting My Mind!

jadeona13

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I dont know why, but this always haunts my mind.

About a year ago, i started to have interest in a girl(she is my girlfriend now)..Not so much interest, it was just beginning. However, I didnt think anything of it. Everytime I would talk to her, she would just say( to someone else)..ohh Michael is so hott I want him so bad..so i just let it go and forgot about her..Plus, Michael was my good friend so I let him haev the girl..

6 months passed. Michael and the girl(who is now my gf), dont talk anymore. I went out with my girlfriend for about a month or so when we started talking about each other's past. She told me she was at a house party with Mike and they hooked up all night and she gave him head. They kept talking until me and the girl started to gain a lot of interest in each other. So now they stopped talkin, and i stopped takin to Mike.

My girlfriend told me alot about her past and everything she did. I didnt care about any of it. Except the Mike thing that is. Everytime i see Mike, i picture my girlfriends head on his d!ck, and i cant control it..

this has never happend. Normally i wouldnt care what she did. Maybe its because Mike has a Mustang convertible, is rich, tall, and very goodlooking and im just jealous. Or maybe its because its the first time my gf gave head to someone, when it could have been me?

I dont kno, but how do i get over this? I am taking out my anger/insecurities out of my girl...she got me mad the other day and i called her a skank by accident!..HELPP
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MooseGod

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She's not a skank for what she did, however she is a cold hard ***** for telling you about it. Unless you asked her, then it's on you. I think a "don't ask, don't tell" policy is best.

Seriously though man, you don't own this girl. You have a past and so does she, but leave the past in the past. Thinking about it will only drag you down.
 

jadeona13

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MooseGod said:
She's not a skank for what she did, however she is a cold hard ***** for telling you about it. Unless you asked her, then it's on you. I think a "don't ask, don't tell" policy is best.

Seriously though man, you don't own this girl. You have a past and so does she, but leave the past in the past. Thinking about it will only drag you down.
I know, your right. I know a lot about her past, but i dont care about it. I dont know why this on incident bothers me so much.. I try not to think about it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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