"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a freshman in college and my two best friends here are pretty good with girls, know how to play the game. So I'm in the perfect position


But when we do approach sets (or whenever they just appear and we start talkin to them) then it seems like it more of a battle between us. And when there is one good looking chick, I hate to even try to game her because it seems like all of us are trying to get at her. So I tend to be the one to back off and start to act disinterested.


This happens all the time. How do you game on a girl when you have competition in the midst? Should I keep trying to gain that alphaness and then eventually I'll just be alpha in the whole situation naturally?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'd avoid 'trying' to do anything as that's being fake and it's easy to spot.

Really the problem is nothing to do with your friends. It's to do with you. Work on building up your own confidence and forget about your insecurities.

By working on yourself you'll get to the point where you won't see your friends as competition.
 
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Bigg Boss said:
...This happens all the time. How do you game on a girl when you have competition in the midst? Should I keep trying to gain that alphaness and then eventually I'll just be alpha in the whole situation naturally?
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And these are you best friends? I think you guys need to look up "camaraderie" in the dictionary. If you boys can't play nice together, maybe should should think about doing something different.
 
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Im not quite understanding. Why don't you spot a cute girl and approach her without mentioning it to your friends? They won't even know and you already have this hottie's number. You rather approach a girl alone not with your friends.
But the other guys are right.....dont worry about ur friends
 
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You and your friends can pick which ones you want or go for a tag team. Or don't always go for the 10's at a party. Interact with all the girls; fat, ugly, rich, poor, slutty. It don't matter; this way you have a chance to practice your game on all women. Be more of a better catch then your friends. Go somewhere without your friends sometime. Do something to set yourself apart from your friends when it comes to getting women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why don't you try isolating the girl you're with? Just a thought.
 
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Yeah I believe its all in my mind. They aren't actually blocking or anything.
 
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young_gun said:
Why don't you try isolating the girl you're with? Just a thought.
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thats what i was trying to say
 
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