"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's Great To Be Back On Sosuave!!!

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Phew, took me a while to muster the courage to come back here. I used to be a mainstay on the site until I got trolled so hard I was banned (fear not mods, I'm a changed man).

Anyhoo, not much has changed. Still a WBAFC looking for the sage advice that will put me over the top with a few HB 9/10s that will double up on my sex stick.

Anyhoo, glad to be back. When did the mega "looks thread" get opened back up? I'm all over that thing. LOL
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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devilkingx2

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how do you get trolled so hard that you GET banned?
 

Thomson

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Has your life changed from the seven years you have been in game industry? How has.
 
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devilkingx2 said:
how do you get trolled so hard that you GET banned?
Some troll named Shop Until I Die pretended he was me and got me banned as well.
 

Skyy.

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Thomson said:
Has your life changed from the seven years you have been in game industry? How has.
Mido the molester can no longer come back to Kokiri Forest.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a Shot Away

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For the record, this guy is obviously a troll and not "the real Deus" or whatever he has been calling himself. I created this user name shortly after being banned from my first name (Deus ex Pianoforte), as a result from getting mixed up in trolling by "shop until I die!" and "mahon" or something like that.
 
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