"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It's gotta be better then this

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I met this girl and we got on well. To the point were we bantered back and forth and with alot of sexual tension. So she texts me how she is so into me and how amazing the night was and how good in bed that i was etc.


But i had a business meeting and i wouldnt of been able to see her for 2 days so we keep in touch through txt and msn. Then all of a sudden she loses interest. Just goes COLD instantly. Which is strange as we planned to have the most amazing night when i got back.

So we talk on msn and shes really cold and distant. Like what is up with that. Anyways she has "Jim" in her name. Which i know is a guy who she knew for 3 or 4 years and she tells me "They might be going out" I talk to jim and he says shes just doing that to get to me and turns out jim is actually dating my cousin.

Now i got back home. She doesn't wanna meet and is Hot/Cold on me all the time. What is up with this? I've tried push/pull , being distant and u name it but its like she doesnt care.

Why are girls like this? Why can they just switch their feelings off like that? It's ****ing stupid.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This sounds like the active test. Don't give into her. Remain a confident and secure man.
 
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I just wrote a thread about this. Same thing happened to me! We had a great night, and the next day she acted very distant/cold. I wore my emotions on my sleeve and showed that SHE was affecting me with her behavior. This showed my insecurity and ultimately caused the end of our relationship. For me, the only thing to do now is to move on and accept my losses.

However, I think there's still hope for you. Don't cave into her behavior. She wants to know how much you care/need for her and that's why she is doing this test. She wants to see if your worthy to be with her.

Be strong brother. Show her that her behavior doesn't bother you- you could care less if you were with her or not. Show her that you can leave at any time. Once she realizes this, she will jump back to you and you will be fine.
 
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