Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I met this girl and we got on well. To the point were we bantered back and forth and with alot of sexual tension. So she texts me how she is so into me and how amazing the night was and how good in bed that i was etc.


But i had a business meeting and i wouldnt of been able to see her for 2 days so we keep in touch through txt and msn. Then all of a sudden she loses interest. Just goes COLD instantly. Which is strange as we planned to have the most amazing night when i got back.

So we talk on msn and shes really cold and distant. Like what is up with that. Anyways she has "Jim" in her name. Which i know is a guy who she knew for 3 or 4 years and she tells me "They might be going out" I talk to jim and he says shes just doing that to get to me and turns out jim is actually dating my cousin.

Now i got back home. She doesn't wanna meet and is Hot/Cold on me all the time. What is up with this? I've tried push/pull , being distant and u name it but its like she doesnt care.

Why are girls like this? Why can they just switch their feelings off like that? It's ****ing stupid.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This sounds like the active test. Don't give into her. Remain a confident and secure man.
 
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I just wrote a thread about this. Same thing happened to me! We had a great night, and the next day she acted very distant/cold. I wore my emotions on my sleeve and showed that SHE was affecting me with her behavior. This showed my insecurity and ultimately caused the end of our relationship. For me, the only thing to do now is to move on and accept my losses.

However, I think there's still hope for you. Don't cave into her behavior. She wants to know how much you care/need for her and that's why she is doing this test. She wants to see if your worthy to be with her.

Be strong brother. Show her that her behavior doesn't bother you- you could care less if you were with her or not. Show her that you can leave at any time. Once she realizes this, she will jump back to you and you will be fine.
 
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