"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It's extremely hard to get a girl in college

Ringleader41

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If you don't know what you're doing or let your guard down slightly you've pretty much phvcked yourself in the ass. There's plenty of women, but that only 10% of the guys doing the phvcking is so true. Every time I meet a girl she's already on somebody's **** or something. I have no problem getting hook ups, I'm still working on closing lol, but keeping them afterwards is near impossible because of this. The problem is that my game isn't good enough for the environment I'm in and being black doesn't help the situation either. It's like playing basketball for the first time against Lebron James. Catching oneitis at my college is a near death sentenced at my college lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SeymourCake

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Stop focusing on getting laid in college. You're in college, and your main priority should be making straight A's and maintaining a 4.0 GPA.

Even if you do get rejected by women, it's not over. Keep going out there to expand your social circle, and befriend them. The larger your social circle is, the higher your status and popularity will be. Join clubs that interest you for even furthermore improvements and form a study group with your classmates. Go out to parties when you have all your assignments done and after you've studied.

Then, getting laid will be part of the territory.
 

QuodErat

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Seymour's got it right. The goal isn't the girls, the girls are the side dish. The point is to pull off good grades and be a ****ing boss.

Being the top in your class, a fvcking boss, AND a charmer will help you much much more than just chasing pvssy.
 

Ringleader41

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I have a 3.5 and Im in a fraternity. Grades arent the only thing that matter. People need social skills too.
 
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