"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's extremely hard to get a girl in college

Ringleader41

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If you don't know what you're doing or let your guard down slightly you've pretty much phvcked yourself in the ass. There's plenty of women, but that only 10% of the guys doing the phvcking is so true. Every time I meet a girl she's already on somebody's **** or something. I have no problem getting hook ups, I'm still working on closing lol, but keeping them afterwards is near impossible because of this. The problem is that my game isn't good enough for the environment I'm in and being black doesn't help the situation either. It's like playing basketball for the first time against Lebron James. Catching oneitis at my college is a near death sentenced at my college lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SeymourCake

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Stop focusing on getting laid in college. You're in college, and your main priority should be making straight A's and maintaining a 4.0 GPA.

Even if you do get rejected by women, it's not over. Keep going out there to expand your social circle, and befriend them. The larger your social circle is, the higher your status and popularity will be. Join clubs that interest you for even furthermore improvements and form a study group with your classmates. Go out to parties when you have all your assignments done and after you've studied.

Then, getting laid will be part of the territory.
 

QuodErat

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Seymour's got it right. The goal isn't the girls, the girls are the side dish. The point is to pull off good grades and be a ****ing boss.

Being the top in your class, a fvcking boss, AND a charmer will help you much much more than just chasing pvssy.
 

Ringleader41

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I have a 3.5 and Im in a fraternity. Grades arent the only thing that matter. People need social skills too.
 
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