It's either effortless sex or it's not worth it

[Timerist]

I used to spend a lot of effort on trying to get sex and in the end i only managed to have sex with few girls and not too many times.

I lost interest cause you always pay with at least 3 things:

1. mood
2. time
3. effort

maybe its just me who has such issues with getting women, and others are getting effortless sex for years in their relationships
but after many attempts i decided to give up on women. it was few years ago

im still uninterested in them

i get that i would be nice to sleep with lot of women and many times but honestly you can get pleasure via other, less-hard-to-get means

im probably gonna use prostitutes in the future when my financial situation is more stable
but no more effort will be spent on women

 

[darksprezzatura]

I used to spend a lot of effort on trying to get sex and in the end i only managed to have sex with few girls and not too many times.

I lost interest cause you always pay with at least 3 things:

1. mood
2. time
3. effort

maybe its just me who has such issues with getting women, and others are getting effortless sex for years in their relationships
but after many attempts i decided to give up on women. it was few years ago

im still uninterested in them

i get that i would be nice to sleep with lot of women and many times but honestly you can get pleasure via other, less-hard-to-get means

im probably gonna use prostitutes in the future when my financial situation is more stable
but no more effort will be spent on women

I'm not the kind to judge folks paying to get laid. But if it's a sport, that's like fixing the match, you won't level up socially.

Just my two cents.

 

[Plinco]

I used to spend a lot of effort on trying to get sex and in the end i only managed to have sex with few girls and not too many times.

I lost interest cause you always pay with at least 3 things:

1. mood
2. time
3. effort

maybe its just me who has such issues with getting women, and others are getting effortless sex for years in their relationships
but after many attempts i decided to give up on women. it was few years ago

im still uninterested in them

i get that i would be nice to sleep with lot of women and many times but honestly you can get pleasure via other, less-hard-to-get means

im probably gonna use prostitutes in the future when my financial situation is more stable
but no more effort will be spent on women

That's totally personal. For you, the juice is not worth the squeeze.

I think you should strive for what makes you happy in the long term. Sometimes happiness takes a lot of work. It's your life, your responsibility. Your life was given to you for free, you do as you see fit with it.