"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's cruise time.......

blinkwatt

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Well not right now but in a couple of months I will be going on a cruise to Mexico with my family. My heart skipped a beat when I heard this,just the break I needed from work. Now I talked to a buddy that went on the same trip and he layed this hb9,blonde,18 year old the first night and he is only 16! He said it was too easy,he just went clubbing and bam she was all over him. Now if my buddy did this I shouldn't have any issues. Now in these clubs on boats are there shirt policys? I wouldn't think there would be because people should be walking around shirtless everywhere cause it's a cruise! Are there any other tips/advice you guys could give me on cruises before I head out on mine?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BluEyes

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Overpack.

I've been on those weeklong cruise things...The dumbest thing I did was underpack. I ended up wearing the same crap every second day and having almost no money. Buy some nice shades if you don't have any, get abit of a tan before you go, and get the bf% down. Cruises are all about superficiality. It's almost like clubbing in the way girls approach them. Have a cool self-image(clothes, body, hair, etc) and just be flirty/****y/funny and throw some game, and they will do the rest.

Basically just look nice, pack some decent clothes(you're not going on a safari in the Congo), and have abit of game.
 

sexy_kuta

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CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS!!!!!!!! pack bags of them
 

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I am Mexican-American from San Antonio, TX, yet I haven't been to Mexico. I would love to go there, maybe next year when I go on leave again back to the United States since I live in Germany.
 

blinkwatt

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Bump......I know more then a couple of board members have been on cruises.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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