"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's cruise time.......

blinkwatt

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Well not right now but in a couple of months I will be going on a cruise to Mexico with my family. My heart skipped a beat when I heard this,just the break I needed from work. Now I talked to a buddy that went on the same trip and he layed this hb9,blonde,18 year old the first night and he is only 16! He said it was too easy,he just went clubbing and bam she was all over him. Now if my buddy did this I shouldn't have any issues. Now in these clubs on boats are there shirt policys? I wouldn't think there would be because people should be walking around shirtless everywhere cause it's a cruise! Are there any other tips/advice you guys could give me on cruises before I head out on mine?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BluEyes

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Overpack.

I've been on those weeklong cruise things...The dumbest thing I did was underpack. I ended up wearing the same crap every second day and having almost no money. Buy some nice shades if you don't have any, get abit of a tan before you go, and get the bf% down. Cruises are all about superficiality. It's almost like clubbing in the way girls approach them. Have a cool self-image(clothes, body, hair, etc) and just be flirty/****y/funny and throw some game, and they will do the rest.

Basically just look nice, pack some decent clothes(you're not going on a safari in the Congo), and have abit of game.
 

sexy_kuta

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CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS!!!!!!!! pack bags of them
 

selfmademob

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I am Mexican-American from San Antonio, TX, yet I haven't been to Mexico. I would love to go there, maybe next year when I go on leave again back to the United States since I live in Germany.
 

blinkwatt

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Bump......I know more then a couple of board members have been on cruises.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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