"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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blind_one

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Its been a over a month now after the events of http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=198366 when the shy chica I met at friends' party.

Went to the party eventually, been fun not much escalation other then my hand on her boobies sneakily after we're all in sleeping pods ( 3 ppl in a single person bed :crackup: ) , which b4 she was a bit defensive against, might be alcohol.

After that I had a raging pyrangitis/tonsilitis swapped some texts which she initiated also with her best friend which was inviting me to have a drink with them all again but I was ill so I refused.

After that was busy with catching up in school, all in all went bowling with one of her friends ( 1 of 2 her best friends which are cool girls too and they respect/like me so thats a great plus ) and my friend who knows his **** and wanted to help me out and play some bowl.

Invited to meet up with me using some silly sh!t like selling russian scuds which she picked up and said she wanted to buy some tanks. Picked her up at the tube, took her to a remote sightseeing point overlooking whole seaside and city panorama. Went to my place watched a cool flick. Wrestled gently with her made out tried to suck her tits but she was bit defensive.

Told her she needn't go back to her place, she can camp here and go in the morning, since it was nearly midnight and her place is far away ( so its all legit).

Told me she would feel awkward but she suggested I come with her so I played a little hesitant ( :crackup: didnt take much to convince me lol ). Her roommate was away at her bf's place so we had some privacy and I got the top off and it was a small win. ( At my place she hinted at not being at ease and not knowing/trusting me yet/that much bcuz she's not the one to trust people easily).

Got invited to their place for a hallowen party wanted to decline that since I legitimately had another party that I wanted to go ( she knew bout it) to and drink with some folks, it started early tho and I didn't make it. Texted that I might not make it bcuz I'm helping my parents and not feeling well, if I won't make it I wish them a good time.

After finishing the errands I was not that much late so I pulled my sh!t together, slapped myself for acting like a little ***** and went to have some fun :D, as turned out later, lots of fun:D .

After the party was heading towards an end some people decided to sleep over so It's gonna be cramped as sh!t so I'm not amused but turns out Kate ( my chicks second best friend) has her appartment empty because her roommate left for the long weekend. So we ( 4 - me, the chicka, kate, and amicable dude ). Kate knows something is about so she shows us the room and we got to sleep.

Oh that's bull**** :D We we're tad tipsy and one thing lead to another, I was bad but so was she :crackup: but thats to be expected from someone who is as inexperienced as me but never the less.

At some point point keep kissing her and put the jimmy on and try st!cking it in, she's like [...]' we could do that but only with protection '[...] I took her hand and put it on it and said ' I know dude:cool: '


Now I want to take a moment and thank sosuave for helping me NOT F@CK SH!T UP ALONG THE WAY which would happen surely like a year ago, when I started on my quest of self improvement, before I started lurking never mind posting.

My point is that, WE broke my dry spell of 13 months (back when I lost my virginity ). THIS IS OUR SUCCESS.


She's a cute one which is going to stick around for a bit, now lets hope I won't get oneitis or start building a pedestal.

Thanks again.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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Good job bro, but its just pvssy...chill, lol
 
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