"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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its barely 2018 and I've lost 2 people I know

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Lost my uncle to old age and a friend to a car accident all on New Years morning.

is this some sorta sign saying 2018 will be f*cked?

not a great way to start the year.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Condolences mate that is very tough. Talk to people don't close up. Have a drink or two in their memory and remember what made them special.

For yourself as much as possible try and stick to your routine. Routine is good for men in tough times.
 

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Spend your time mourning brother. Try to do it as sober as possible, feel the emotions and allow yourself to remember the good as much as possible.

I'm sorry for your loss. The only way the year will be bad is if you allow yourself to get down and out. I know, easy for me to say. But be strong, reach out for help. We're all here for you, you have family, friends, loved ones, be with them in this time. When you're ready start back to improving yourself and making your uncle and friend proud.
 

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Man, I'm sorry to hear that. That's pretty much how my 2017 was. Last year I lost my dad, my sister, a guy who I considered my 'second dad', a great co-worker, and a long-time friend.

I think everyone gets a 5hit storm at least once in their life. It fvcking sucks, but that's just how things go. Take care of yourself and keep moving forward.
 

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Lost my uncle to old age and a friend to a car accident all on New Years morning.

is this some sorta sign saying 2018 will be f*cked?

not a great way to start the year.
Consider your uncle fortunate to have died of old age. Consider the car accident fate.

"Everything that you cannot control by applying your reason is ultimately out of your hands. It is fate. Fate happens. Treat it with indifference"

No it is not a sign, let's not start creating self fulfilling prophecies now.

Now is a moment to be careful of making this about you, about feeling sorry for yourself. Now is a time for ultimate self care, mental fortitude,
grieving with dignity and honor and self respect.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sorry to hear it man. Don't take it as a metaphysical thing though. Sometimes bad happenings group together.
 
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