"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its amazing how woman lie to flake

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Harry Wilmington

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The "one strike rule" is bogus. Granted, it sucks when a chick flakes on you and gives you what you THINK may be an excuse... but you typically want to give a girl a minimum of TWO strikes. Her doing it once could just be a coincidence; her doing it twice makes it a PATTERN. In the game of dating you want to look for patterns of behavior to better read her interest level, and her flaking ONE time doesn't allow you to really do that. I've had chicks flake on me for first dates before for legit reasons, and we were able to set up a 2nd date where she showed up. So... don't take a one-time flake as a reason to suddenly go NC on her.

With that, though, I will say this: a girl that genuinely wants to see you but has to flake out will usually respond back with a counter-offer: "Oh, sorry, I can't make our date tonight, I have a funeral to go to... but I'll be free this Sunday at 7 if that works for you?" Yes, even a girl that's grieving will try to make alternative plans with you if she likes you - so, if she didn't counter-offer, you may want to worry a bit, lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Harry,

I have forgoten this chick to tell the truth. i didn't contact her since Tuesday.

I am talking about another chick. read what i wrote :)
 
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