"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its amazing how woman lie to flake

Harry Wilmington

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The "one strike rule" is bogus. Granted, it sucks when a chick flakes on you and gives you what you THINK may be an excuse... but you typically want to give a girl a minimum of TWO strikes. Her doing it once could just be a coincidence; her doing it twice makes it a PATTERN. In the game of dating you want to look for patterns of behavior to better read her interest level, and her flaking ONE time doesn't allow you to really do that. I've had chicks flake on me for first dates before for legit reasons, and we were able to set up a 2nd date where she showed up. So... don't take a one-time flake as a reason to suddenly go NC on her.

With that, though, I will say this: a girl that genuinely wants to see you but has to flake out will usually respond back with a counter-offer: "Oh, sorry, I can't make our date tonight, I have a funeral to go to... but I'll be free this Sunday at 7 if that works for you?" Yes, even a girl that's grieving will try to make alternative plans with you if she likes you - so, if she didn't counter-offer, you may want to worry a bit, lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zorg198

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Harry,

I have forgoten this chick to tell the truth. i didn't contact her since Tuesday.

I am talking about another chick. read what i wrote :)
 
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