"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its amazing how woman lie to flake

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Harry Wilmington

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The "one strike rule" is bogus. Granted, it sucks when a chick flakes on you and gives you what you THINK may be an excuse... but you typically want to give a girl a minimum of TWO strikes. Her doing it once could just be a coincidence; her doing it twice makes it a PATTERN. In the game of dating you want to look for patterns of behavior to better read her interest level, and her flaking ONE time doesn't allow you to really do that. I've had chicks flake on me for first dates before for legit reasons, and we were able to set up a 2nd date where she showed up. So... don't take a one-time flake as a reason to suddenly go NC on her.

With that, though, I will say this: a girl that genuinely wants to see you but has to flake out will usually respond back with a counter-offer: "Oh, sorry, I can't make our date tonight, I have a funeral to go to... but I'll be free this Sunday at 7 if that works for you?" Yes, even a girl that's grieving will try to make alternative plans with you if she likes you - so, if she didn't counter-offer, you may want to worry a bit, lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Harry,

I have forgoten this chick to tell the truth. i didn't contact her since Tuesday.

I am talking about another chick. read what i wrote :)
 
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