"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's amazing how self destructive women are when it comes to relationships

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They make it so you can't win. If you're in this situation, you gotta stick to your decision. How many times do girls do this and then break up with you after! WTF.??? Any type of thoughts leading to "break" scenarios means she's loosing interest in you. It's your duty to sense this beforehand. As soon as she suggests the break, agree, amplify, and kiss your relationship goodbye.
 

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It's all about her having a power trip. She can do whatever she wants to with him ending it on her terms or accusing him of not doing anything. she gets to have her cake and eat it too. Don't forget there's another guy who is the reason for the break. she already decided about this break a long time ago.
 

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This is why relationships are a joke and people should not be in one in the first place.
 

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she asked her boyfriend what he would do if they wanted to take a break.

I got that once. She was telling me "I like being single." And I said, "That's fine, but that means I'm single, too."

(long awkward pause)

"Well I don't like that very much! I guess I'm not single, then!"

And then I fvcked the hell out of her for about a year.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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El Payaso

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Bible_Belt said:
she asked her boyfriend what he would do if they wanted to take a break.

I got that once. She was telling me "I like being single." And I said, "That's fine, but that means I'm single, too."

(long awkward pause)

"Well I don't like that very much! I guess I'm not single, then!"

And then I fvcked the hell out of her for about a year.
Good job! :up:
 

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That girl is a nutjob. Anyone who has to join sosuave or a forum like loveshack is probably at least somewhat fvcked in the head when it comes to relationships.
 
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