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Let's hope he at least crashes and burns.STR8UP said:I'm sure he won't mind me picking up the pieces when he crashes and burns![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Let's hope he at least crashes and burns.STR8UP said:I'm sure he won't mind me picking up the pieces when he crashes and burns![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
pop music kills!!fuzzx said:I blame this on the boy bands. They play all this sappy, whiny music and fill their videos with hot chicks. Young men make the wrong connection
I like that music!!!
You don't like it when men get you mad and they they kiss you?STR8UP said:• get her mad, then kiss her. [this makes me angry when guys do this.]
The world will be much less frustrating if you can keep reminding yourself of this.STR8UP said:...I guess I can't change the world.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Only to get shouted down and ridiculed for being "bitter" (female word to make what you say meritless) instead of "awakened" and "concerned" and desiring to help others.AgonyUncle said:So its not like it was 5 years ago. Men are starting to realize that they are not alone. As more and more men go through this crap, not knowing what the hell they have actually done wrong in many cases, they stumble across websites like this in a search for answers.
Wow... I guess the joke isn't funny if I have to explain it. See I pretended I misunderstood what was being said and then used a famous poster... oh nevermind...mrRuckus said:Only to get shouted down and ridiculed for being "bitter" (female word to make what you say meritless) instead of "awakened" and "concerned" and desiring to help others.
See post about pook above.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.