"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's all or nothing.

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Imagine living a life along such guidelines. A system so harsh hurts to think about but is so attractive in it's flawlessness.

We'd have to adapt I suppose. The site, I mean. Lost, sad (depressed?) confused... and here we are. All the answers. And to think that there once was no internet o_O

What did they do then with their girl problems? They didn't have an online forum where they could anonymously ask questions and give advice. AFCs giving each other AFC advice? Oh oh!!! I wonder now if we are getting ahead here. We had an obsession with girls and simply transfered it to something else. Another hobby, but nonetheless an addiction holding us back. Maybe we aren't done?

How many of us learned what life could really be like? How much fun we could truly have... I for one did. That first sense a freedom from girls and then that second one to be whoever the hell you wanted to be. But then we stopped. It was felt once and that was enough. Nope sorry, not anymore. It's all or nothing. I enlisted and I quit. But no longer, nah uh. My friends aren't holding me back. Hah! Pathetic excuse. We already established who was the one behind the controls to your life.

Well, it does work. I mean, you are much happier than billions of people. But is that enough? Heh... Will we ever be content? This is all mental masturbation =D The will power, the drive.... To go to the places you need to reach. A slow process that eventually forces itself upon us through age. I wonder how I'm going to die... I decided to die a death worth dieing. Then I thought... How about living a life worth living? Here is my calling. I have been summoned.

A person can only take advantage of you as much as you let them. But don't forget to hold your guard against yourself.

You have to wonder, are girls the missing link? Is happiness the missing link? AFC/DJ/Jerk? A finality is all that is needed. Take care to go the whole way. A shame to waste such talent once the fun begins!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What did they do then with their girl problems? They didn't have an online forum where they could anonymously ask questions and give advice.
As much as I dislike some of your statements that one has a lot of thought in it...
 

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The problem is in fact that we set our standards where we want to and naturally demand that everyone else live up to them. After all, the difference between the DJ and normie is that the DJ meets the standards first and foremost.

Your standards are way too high for the tastes of most people.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam

What did they do then with their girl problems?
Back then, they did not care if hb9 looked at them or not.


Originally posted by LikRetsam

Will we ever be content?
Maybe the world is not enough?
 

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If they didn't care then, why do we care now?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I personally don't. Therefore I dont know.


Has something to do with all the comforts we have now.

Back then, life was alot harder. Even look 50 or so years back. Now, it isn't the same.
 

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Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
Media...
:) Always an easy answer, isn't it?
 

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No. Im saying they had better things to worry about.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think this site helps 90% of the people here. There is that odd person that is great, and then enters the site and thinks about everything too much. Everyone else gets helped dramtically by the site, but their own insecurities and procrastination holds them back. You can't blame the website for not approaching, that's just sad. The post was coo, i liked the part about a life worth living instead of a death worth dying, sounded poetic.


The media didn't force you to listen to it, you gave in and was raised by it. There are many people in the world who aren't influenced by television because of lack of money or just willpower...
 

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Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
Media...
I would agree that the media or even the big bad society did this to us. It's the Man's fault! but... that won't get anything done.

I like to think we're responsible for our lives. It's our fault. Atleast in this case, we have the power to do something about it.
 

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we have the power to do something about it.

Not when we like to sit in our lazy boys and eat twinkies all day. ;)
 
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