"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's all about the ****y and Funny Attitude..

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Well the idea, hit me last night while i was sleeping... as I was thinking of all my relationships and what I was gonna do with my dating life... i realized.. that all my past successes with woman... mostly came out of my ****y and funny attitude... like all the chix i landed.. who were stand offish and stuck up at the start, turned into talkative, sweet and fun to be with people.

So i was sitting on my bed last night kinda thinking of all the things I'd used to say to these gurls, and as I kept thinking of the different convos... i realized that as I was going through all these events of hinting teasing, flirting, busting the ladiez balls.. I actually felt my confidence level rising and it kinda felt like I had my game back and could get the ladies attracted again... =p

As I was saying these lines in my head, i was actually laugh'n at my own jokes thinking Wow! That's a killer... The thing is they aren't mean or anything... they're actually funny, and you can imagine the girl laughing at this kind of thing and giving you a slap.. etc.. etc..

So a great idea is to leave some time for yourself everyday or so, and think of some situations where you could you ****y funny...

Come on guyz it'd be great to have some ****y and funny examples for the freshman here!!!!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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****y and Funny is better when you come up with it on the spot, so I probably wont have any real good stuff on my mind. What are some example situations? Give me aclue on the conversation and maybe what the HB says
 

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Yer ur right, it is kinda hard.. but i guess when ur in the attitude... it just kinda comes naturally... hmmmm... situations.. alot of them came to me last night.. while i was thinking about them.. but yer cant seem to remember them right now...

But i guess.. while interacting with gurls my mindset is basically ****y n funny. because yer.. it says all the right things to the gurl you want to meet...

ne one got any good examples they can think of from off the spot??? Say the context is, the girls is on about school and asking u q's about school life etc... basically boring topics...

2nd.. simply approaching a girl to get number or start conversation... say in a shopping mall.... and she's simply brousing around... doin her own stuff... ne one got a good idea of how to turn this situation into a ****y and funny one in order to distinguish urself.. from all the other everiday guys that try and apporach her?? ...
 

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okai okai.. i think this is better way of summing it up... ??? Since ****y n funny is best done on the spot.... What's the best mindset.. to put urself in... in order to feel the attitude of ****y and funny.. because basically when your in ****y and funny your voice tone changes, ur body language.. basically your entire character.. and everything and anyhting you say.. will pretty much..get the gurl laughing and slapping you...

I think this would be a great tip for the fresh Dj's... Once you've experienced the C&f attitude... you wont believe.. how woman.. respond to you... ;)
 

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i find that practicing ****y funny is best done out in real life.

BUT.......the other good place to practice it is on IM. In real life you gotta be able to spit out stuff as quickly as someone ends a sentence. You cant really stop and think too long or else it becomes werid. On IM, you can talk and stop to think about what you want to say. But dont take 5 mins to respond....it should give you an extra 30s-1min to come up with a good C&F response. Doing this helped me think of better things to say...so after couple of months doing it online...i am now able to spit out awesome C&F stuff in real life...some even better than if i had to stop and think about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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