"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its all a numbers game

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Thats all that there is to game really. Its just maths and statistics. Eventually even the biggest loser will get lucky now and again. It dont matter how lame your game is (within reason) as long as one is prepared to approach and keep approaching he will get his.

It all sounds very simple and it is. Having said that there is another important characteristic that one needs to have : thick skin. If you wanna get good or even lucky now and again you gotta be able to have amnesia in a way. You gotta be able to brush away even the nastiest rejections and keep moving forward. Keep playing the game.

Babe Ruth had it right when he said each strike out brings me closer to a home run. In same way each rejection brings one closer to getting a girl.

Disclaimer : This is just if you dont care about quality as such and are not looking for a wife. But if you want the top notch talent you better be top notch talent yourself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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True....rejections are never as bad as you think they will be.

The emotion of fear has a he11 of a way to blow things out of proportion. When you think rejection you always think worst case scenario...."NO. I THINK YOUR UGLY NOW GET AWAY FROM ME".....when in reality its more like "ohhhh sorry. I have a boyfriend".
 
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TheException said:
True....rejections are never as bad as you think they will be.

The emotion of fear has a he11 of a way to blow things out of proportion. When you think rejection you always think worst case scenario...."NO. I THINK YOUR UGLY NOW GET AWAY FROM ME".....when in reality its more like "ohhhh sorry. I have a boyfriend".
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Yes exactly but the majority of guys cant get past this rejection barrier. Some just have a big egos, others are too sensitive. Thats why growing a thick skin so to speak is very important especially for newbies who are not super models. Be prepared to be rejected and move on.
 
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The guys this thread is aimed up usually are starting with pretty low self esteem so the rejections do hit home pretty hard
 
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