Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It's about time...

Desdinova

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After three years of numerous dates, two LTRs and a 23 year old nympho, I finally have my game back up to the level that it was ten years ago. I have two social circles in two different bars which gives me mad social proof, and I've got plenty of women hitting on me consistently. My personality is in a state of being care-free with regards to whether I get the woman or not, it's tuned to the right amount of ****y/funny and flirty, and my confidence is shining brightly. Everybody's noticing that the women are coming to me like a magnet.

Last Saturday, I ended up making out with a HB7 within about 30 minutes of meeting her. Last Tuesday I was being approached by attractive 20 year olds and one even invited me out to a concert, and tonight I've got a full night to look for new adventures.

I personally never thought that your game should be measured by how many women you can fvck, it should be measured by your social status. I've just begun to reach the point where I can pick and choose almost any woman I want. Even the ones who aren't socially interacting with me are checking me out.

When you hit that magical point where your game is tuned just right, the women start pouring in.

After three years of my marriage ending, I finally feel like a Don Juan again :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is awesome, dude! Isn't this the goal of what we're doing here, though? Like you said, it's not all about how many women you nail. It's about how you feel about yourself. Glad to hear you're back in the zone, man!
 

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Awesome, man! Go get em! :)
 

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Good for you, Des.

I've been reading a lot from guys in their 30s lately, like you, who are getting with girls in their early 20s. I know some 30+ guys have their hangups about this, and think younger girls only think of them as creepers. But men in their 30s are really in their prime SMV-wise, as long as they stay fit and have confidence in themselves.

Someone recently said that the reason young men have it so tough is that the 20-25 year old women are being competed for by ALL men, practically. And it really is true, isn't it? Although at my age 26-30 sounds just as good.
 

Paintballguy

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zekko said:
Someone recently said that the reason young men have it so tough is that the 20-25 year old women are being competed for by ALL men, practically. And it really is true, isn't it? Although at my age 26-30 sounds just as good.
It's true. I had the hardest time getting laid when I was younger. Hell now it's so much easier that I'm older, have the money, game and looks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Men in their thirties tend to have a lot more to offer than younger guys. Sure most younger guys have their youth, but their maturity, game, and status tend to be vastly underdeveloped.
 
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