"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's about time...

Desdinova

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After three years of numerous dates, two LTRs and a 23 year old nympho, I finally have my game back up to the level that it was ten years ago. I have two social circles in two different bars which gives me mad social proof, and I've got plenty of women hitting on me consistently. My personality is in a state of being care-free with regards to whether I get the woman or not, it's tuned to the right amount of ****y/funny and flirty, and my confidence is shining brightly. Everybody's noticing that the women are coming to me like a magnet.

Last Saturday, I ended up making out with a HB7 within about 30 minutes of meeting her. Last Tuesday I was being approached by attractive 20 year olds and one even invited me out to a concert, and tonight I've got a full night to look for new adventures.

I personally never thought that your game should be measured by how many women you can fvck, it should be measured by your social status. I've just begun to reach the point where I can pick and choose almost any woman I want. Even the ones who aren't socially interacting with me are checking me out.

When you hit that magical point where your game is tuned just right, the women start pouring in.

After three years of my marriage ending, I finally feel like a Don Juan again :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is awesome, dude! Isn't this the goal of what we're doing here, though? Like you said, it's not all about how many women you nail. It's about how you feel about yourself. Glad to hear you're back in the zone, man!
 

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Awesome, man! Go get em! :)
 

zekko

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Good for you, Des.

I've been reading a lot from guys in their 30s lately, like you, who are getting with girls in their early 20s. I know some 30+ guys have their hangups about this, and think younger girls only think of them as creepers. But men in their 30s are really in their prime SMV-wise, as long as they stay fit and have confidence in themselves.

Someone recently said that the reason young men have it so tough is that the 20-25 year old women are being competed for by ALL men, practically. And it really is true, isn't it? Although at my age 26-30 sounds just as good.
 

Paintballguy

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zekko said:
Someone recently said that the reason young men have it so tough is that the 20-25 year old women are being competed for by ALL men, practically. And it really is true, isn't it? Although at my age 26-30 sounds just as good.
It's true. I had the hardest time getting laid when I was younger. Hell now it's so much easier that I'm older, have the money, game and looks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Men in their thirties tend to have a lot more to offer than younger guys. Sure most younger guys have their youth, but their maturity, game, and status tend to be vastly underdeveloped.
 
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