Its a girls idea if you get laid

[TheAdonis]

I got this tip from a guy about my age and this is about the smartest thing I have ever heard him say, "I dosn't matter if you want to get laid, and if you do it's the girls idea and it is because she wanted it at the time" and think about it is so true. They have it, we want it, they know it, but they also want it. So when you are chillin with a girl you want, put out thoughts of having sex because they will only fill you mind with that and not how you could be presenting yourself as someone who deserves it. And let them chase you : ) forget everything about persuing, be the pursued but make yourself avaliable to be purseued because you still need to initiate.

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

while it's true that unless you want to rape a girl then she has to want too...

...but...

The whole idea is to make them want to. In reality you yourself control when you do and when you don't get laid.

When dealing with most typical girls (eceptions being religous and idealistic types, etc...) you can get laid as fast as your game allows.

So yes, ultimately it is their descision but you control their desire.

 

[Royal-tiger]

Very well said.

 

[Booblepook]

This is a dangerous idea if interpreted incorrectly. It is absolutely true, they control whether you get laid or not. But that also makes a woman being perceived as a *****, thus it is a dangerous idea.. Because women's worst nightmare is being perceived as a ***** or a slut, second to becoming pregnant from a guy she barely knows.. That alone is enough for them to not do it.


That is, most women will not escalate it with you or initiate it with you. This burden is placed upon men, otherwise a woman will come off as a slut.


She might want you so so bad, but she will never escalate it with you.


Thus knowing that is golden. Don't just sit there and wait, it will never happen, pricess. Instead, make it happen.

 

[comic_relief]

That is, most women will not escalate it with you or initiate it with you. This burden is placed upon men, otherwise a woman will come off as a slut.

Unless she is in a relationship with you already then she will initiate, but a common girl on the street you want to have an ONS with won't initiate.

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