I got this tip from a guy about my age and this is about the smartest thing I have ever heard him say, "I dosn't matter if you want to get laid, and if you do it's the girls idea and it is because she wanted it at the time" and think about it is so true. They have it, we want it, they know it, but they also want it. So when you are chillin with a girl you want, put out thoughts of having sex because they will only fill you mind with that and not how you could be presenting yourself as someone who deserves it. And let them chase you : ) forget everything about persuing, be the pursued but make yourself avaliable to be purseued because you still need to initiate.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Its a girls idea if you get laid
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Teflon_Mcgee
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while it's true that unless you want to rape a girl then she has to want too...
...but...
The whole idea is to make them want to. In reality you yourself control when you do and when you don't get laid.
When dealing with most typical girls (eceptions being religous and idealistic types, etc...) you can get laid as fast as your game allows.
So yes, ultimately it is their descision but you control their desire.
...but...
The whole idea is to make them want to. In reality you yourself control when you do and when you don't get laid.
When dealing with most typical girls (eceptions being religous and idealistic types, etc...) you can get laid as fast as your game allows.
So yes, ultimately it is their descision but you control their desire.
Royal-tiger
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Very well said.
Booblepook
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This is a dangerous idea if interpreted incorrectly. It is absolutely true, they control whether you get laid or not. But that also makes a woman being perceived as a *****, thus it is a dangerous idea.. Because women's worst nightmare is being perceived as a ***** or a slut, second to becoming pregnant from a guy she barely knows.. That alone is enough for them to not do it.
That is, most women will not escalate it with you or initiate it with you. This burden is placed upon men, otherwise a woman will come off as a slut.
She might want you so so bad, but she will never escalate it with you.
Thus knowing that is golden. Don't just sit there and wait, it will never happen, pricess. Instead, make it happen.
That is, most women will not escalate it with you or initiate it with you. This burden is placed upon men, otherwise a woman will come off as a slut.
She might want you so so bad, but she will never escalate it with you.
Thus knowing that is golden. Don't just sit there and wait, it will never happen, pricess. Instead, make it happen.
comic_relief
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Unless she is in a relationship with you already then she will initiate, but a common girl on the street you want to have an ONS with won't initiate.Booblepook said:
comic_relief
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.