"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's a game...

PatZull

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It's only a game!

A game of 'the more you give the more you get'!

1. The more you give the more you'll get!
What can you give a girl.. looks, smarts, a dance.. even that's not enough! Learn to speak more languages.. work out.. Learn to cook.. Don't lose your time smoking weed and sleeping.. fvcking time is passing and you have less to live.. why not waste it on something you can gain from later (or even right now!)?

2. The better you can mix what you give the better you'll get!
When you have enough to give and started mixing them, good things will happen..
If you can cook and dance.. You'll magically give the illusion that you can create romance, fvck, use your body better!
If you have good looks and are funny.. You'll magically become so fvcking irresistable, even the dead we'll be amazed! But think if you had only good looks or if you were only funny, it's completely different story, isn't it?

3. If you can't give something, you can always give something similar, creating the same effect!
If you don't have the looks.. You can always have good clothes, nice haircut, nice deodorant..
If you are not so smart.. You can always become more funny.. you can easily start learning 2 words from the dictionary that you don't know and see what happens...

So, what can YOU give.. How well can YOU play the game?

P.S. This is my first 'official' (outside my journal) advice, so don't be harsh ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dbot

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Dont expect more than what you're willing to give. Good post.
 

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Great post!

Give without expectation... that way, whatever you recieve has that much more spice.
 

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dbot, MoAF: Thanks for the replies, guys!

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59 views... and only 2 replies.. come one people.. I'm learning too.. disagree with me.. argue with me.. COME ON ! ;) ;)
 

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i agree
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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