"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It will mostly work but what next? Is this a test?

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jigga23

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So I made a couple of posts on here lately cause of some problems with my LTR GF. She wanted space turned into some arugments and stuff. Im giving her space. Im not going to call her only return her calls and answer them and be kind of short on the phone acting like im very busy. But how long should I do this for? How can I try to get things rollin again?

Also just out of curiousity is she just testing me at the same time to see how I will react to her asking me to give her space out of the blue. She did this to her ex but he became a stalker and pushed her to edge where she never wanted to talk to her. I mostly know what to do in this situation and I will defiantley not act like her ex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Act busy, not indifferent. Show her that you do like her, but if she doesn't want to be part of your life, you're ok with her decision. You make the rules, not her.
You' re just not needy and you give her space.
If she comes back to you, that's fine. If she doesn't, do not try to persuade her. Let her go.
And another thing: if she comes back and does it again, then you should very seriously think of nexting her.
The only reason you ask if it's a test or not, its because that you're afraid that you might lose her. Don't be.
You don't want a woman that doesn't want to be with you man.
In fact, this is a test for yourself. To show to YOU that you respect yourself and get what you deserve, nothing more, nothing less.
 
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As in my first response to your first thread........


Your mind is not clear kid!!

Take some crack cocaine and maybe it will become clear because your natural state of mind is going to destroy you!!!

Get the hell out of the matrix before this agent hor extinguishes you!!

She is screwing other dudes -- this is the only reason a woman wants "space",

If she wants "space" tell this ho to be an Astronaut!!!

Run and run fast without looking back!!!!
 
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The more you act like you don't need her, the more she will want you back. Odd how this works, but its a given.
 
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