"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It will mostly work but what next? Is this a test?

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jigga23

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So I made a couple of posts on here lately cause of some problems with my LTR GF. She wanted space turned into some arugments and stuff. Im giving her space. Im not going to call her only return her calls and answer them and be kind of short on the phone acting like im very busy. But how long should I do this for? How can I try to get things rollin again?

Also just out of curiousity is she just testing me at the same time to see how I will react to her asking me to give her space out of the blue. She did this to her ex but he became a stalker and pushed her to edge where she never wanted to talk to her. I mostly know what to do in this situation and I will defiantley not act like her ex.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Act busy, not indifferent. Show her that you do like her, but if she doesn't want to be part of your life, you're ok with her decision. You make the rules, not her.
You' re just not needy and you give her space.
If she comes back to you, that's fine. If she doesn't, do not try to persuade her. Let her go.
And another thing: if she comes back and does it again, then you should very seriously think of nexting her.
The only reason you ask if it's a test or not, its because that you're afraid that you might lose her. Don't be.
You don't want a woman that doesn't want to be with you man.
In fact, this is a test for yourself. To show to YOU that you respect yourself and get what you deserve, nothing more, nothing less.
 
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As in my first response to your first thread........


Your mind is not clear kid!!

Take some crack cocaine and maybe it will become clear because your natural state of mind is going to destroy you!!!

Get the hell out of the matrix before this agent hor extinguishes you!!

She is screwing other dudes -- this is the only reason a woman wants "space",

If she wants "space" tell this ho to be an Astronaut!!!

Run and run fast without looking back!!!!
 
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Wiesman44

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The more you act like you don't need her, the more she will want you back. Odd how this works, but its a given.
 
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