"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FreshMenTank

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Well i meet a girl on facebook, and we started talking. it was a light convo, you know; hey wats up, type stuff, a lil compliment from both sides. you know everything was going good, then i found out she got a boyfriend. i could care less, i just need help with making her think less of her boyfriend and more of me. what should i do. i need some help.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NorwegianDJ

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FreshMenTank said:
Well i meet a girl on facebook, and we started talking. it was a light convo, you know; hey wats up, type stuff, a lil compliment from both sides. you know everything was going good, then i found out she got a boyfriend. i could care less, i just need help with making her think less of her boyfriend and more of me. what should i do. i need some help.
You're from the teen forum on bodybuilding.com right?

Your answer: Abundance. Go for several girls, and you wont get this kind of problem.
 

Plec07

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I'm sorry but I'm in a LTR, and I don't think very much of guys who like to steal girls from their boyfriends. That doesn't show anything about yourself other than you care little about other people (There will be pain for the girl and the boyfriend). It just comes across to me as sleezy, thats not what this forum is trying to teach.

Go for girls who arn't taken, don't ask for help to break up a relationship just because you wanna get laid.
 

bassmastajazzyj

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First of all don't try and pick girls up on facebook and second of all if the girl is slutty enough and you're popular/muscular/cool enough, having a boyfriend won't really matter for her.
 
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