"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It truely is the season of love

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I know this sounds way too freakin obvious and been talk about a couple of times, but let me say this anyways, personally I think the mall is one of the best places to approach and talk to women right now. This is those times of the year where the mall is really jam packed with a variety of women and I'm betting if you have a descent amount of social skills and charm, don't act like an idiot, you'll land a couple of numbers - dates or two at the minimimum. This is this time of the year where your mall is jam packed everyday and you know what that means - plenty of chicks and love to go around. Hell, I was in the mall recently and I don't live in a big city, but the mall was jam packed all day and probably going to be that way for the next two weeks. Newbies and experience Djs can all benefit from this scenario, just my two cents.

You guys have a happy and kick ass holiday.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.
 

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Share your great inner energy.

Originally posted by Datawolf
The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.

Hey man, get in the holiday spirit. This is the time of the year to pass the love around, in other words learn to feel GREAT. If you feel great and have a sense of high inner energy in you, the chicks are going to notice.
 

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Originally posted by Datawolf
The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.
Did you confuse us with the mainstream where men should actually give a sh!t or fear the b!tch may be "busy"?

Its called self esteem. As if she has anything better to do than be approached by a God, this is the stuff she dreams about.

And yep Roly your right. Tis the loneliest time of the year where every man woman and dog is scrambling over itself to feel wanted. Chicks are ripe for the plucking, you couldnt ask for a better time.
 

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Re: Share your great inner energy.

Originally posted by Roly
Hey man, get in the holiday spirit. This is the time of the year to pass the love around, in other words learn to feel GREAT. If you feel great and have a sense of high inner energy in you, the chicks are going to notice.
I see what you're getting at. I guess I was just projecting my own mindset in that I don't like strangers pestering me when I'm busy.

Good advice, I'll keep that in mind.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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