"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It truely is the season of love

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I know this sounds way too freakin obvious and been talk about a couple of times, but let me say this anyways, personally I think the mall is one of the best places to approach and talk to women right now. This is those times of the year where the mall is really jam packed with a variety of women and I'm betting if you have a descent amount of social skills and charm, don't act like an idiot, you'll land a couple of numbers - dates or two at the minimimum. This is this time of the year where your mall is jam packed everyday and you know what that means - plenty of chicks and love to go around. Hell, I was in the mall recently and I don't live in a big city, but the mall was jam packed all day and probably going to be that way for the next two weeks. Newbies and experience Djs can all benefit from this scenario, just my two cents.

You guys have a happy and kick ass holiday.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.
 

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Share your great inner energy.

Originally posted by Datawolf
The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.

Hey man, get in the holiday spirit. This is the time of the year to pass the love around, in other words learn to feel GREAT. If you feel great and have a sense of high inner energy in you, the chicks are going to notice.
 

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Originally posted by Datawolf
The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.
Did you confuse us with the mainstream where men should actually give a sh!t or fear the b!tch may be "busy"?

Its called self esteem. As if she has anything better to do than be approached by a God, this is the stuff she dreams about.

And yep Roly your right. Tis the loneliest time of the year where every man woman and dog is scrambling over itself to feel wanted. Chicks are ripe for the plucking, you couldnt ask for a better time.
 

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Re: Share your great inner energy.

Originally posted by Roly
Hey man, get in the holiday spirit. This is the time of the year to pass the love around, in other words learn to feel GREAT. If you feel great and have a sense of high inner energy in you, the chicks are going to notice.
I see what you're getting at. I guess I was just projecting my own mindset in that I don't like strangers pestering me when I'm busy.

Good advice, I'll keep that in mind.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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